My 35th birthday is coming up, I have 2 beautiful children, our first alive child took 3 years for us, previously we went through 3 miscarriages, our first at 19.3 weeks, our twins, Alison and James and the second and third were around 10 to 13 weeks, my second child came at 27 weeks. Our journey through NICU was a huge learning experience. I am a horse breeder, breaker, trainer and competitor. At this stage in my life I am a mother first. A learing mother, constantly learning.